sex & relationships

Try something new in bed: 6 spicy ideas

Written by C Wolsey

Whatever people may say or think, sex matters. It helps us feel better, get closer to the people we love, experience enormous pleasure – and it’s good for your health, both mental and physical. However, even if you have a great relationship, sex can get boring with time – and it’s only natural if you start thinking about ways to spice up your adventures in bed.

And we are here to help you do just that. In the article below, you’ll find a list of 6 hottest ideas to improve your sex, such as trying toys, wearing sexy lingerie, setting up a mirror near the bed, and a few more. Read on – and make your sex life much more interesting. 

1. Try a New Position

If you want to have better sex, try out a new position. The missionary position is often used in the first stages of romance, but it’s high time to find something new and exciting. Here are some ideas:

• Stand up – this is a great option for those who don’t like to lie on their backs or stomachs during sex.

• Sit down – this is another great option for those who aren’t comfortable with lying during sex.

• Side by side – this is a great option for those who prefer having sex in bed. It’s also good for those who like to cuddle after sex.

• Doggy style – this position is great for those who like the feeling of being dominated, and it allows for deep penetration.

• Leg up – in this position, one leg is up, and the other one is on the floor, which allows for a very deep penetration.

These are just some of the most popular positions for sex – don’t hesitate to try something completely different. And remember that you don’t have to like something that other people do – look for a position that will feel good for you and your partner. 

2. Try out Toys

Sex toys are a great way to add some spice to your sex life. They allow you to let your imagination run wild and try out things that you might not do with your partner. For example, if you or your partner dream about sex dolls, don’t hesitate to look for them – for example, on Silicon Wives or in your local sex shop.

Or, if you’re into BDSM, you can use nipple clamps, floggers, whips, ropes, gags, blindfolds, etc. You can also use toys that will bring more pleasure to your partner, such as vibrators (for women) and penis rings (for men).

3. Use a Mirror Near the Bed

A mirror near the bed can be a great addition to your sex life. Thanks to it, you can watch the action and see how turned on your partner is getting. It can also be used to create a certain ambiance and make your bedroom look hotter. However, don’t place it to close to you to avoid breaking it in the heat of action. 

4. Try Role-Playing

Role-playing is another great way to improve your sex life. And it’s not only about dressing up as someone else – it can also help you feel less inhibited and become more open to discussing your fantasies. You may be surprised at how much fun you can have! 

If you’re interested in role-playing, you should talk about what you want to do with your partner before the actual play starts. Some ideas include playing a teacher and student, a doctor and patient, a slave and master/mistress, an expert and an apprentice, etc. Just make sure that you and your partner are on the same page about that. 

5. Wear Sexy Lingerie

Wearing sexy underwear or lingerie is another great way to improve your sex life. It makes you feel more attractive and free  – and you’ll definitely enjoy showing off your body when your partner looks dazzled by you. You can purchase new underwear or lingerie from online stores or from your local store where you can try it on. And don’t forget to experiment!

6. Give Each Other Massages

Giving each other massages can be a great way to start the night. Not only is that good for your health, but it also helps you both relax and focus on each other. Plus, massages can be very sensual and help you get aroused easier.

To make the massage most pleasurable, you can use oils or lotions to make your hands smoother. And don’t forget to check if your partner likes what you are doing.


Improving your sex life doesn’t have to be hard. All you need to do is to talk to your partner about it and try out new ideas. And the best part is that you don’t have to spend a lot of money to make it happen – just use your imagination and be creative.

Trying new positions or role-playing, putting a mirror near your bed, giving each other massages – these tips are simple yet extremely effective. And if you want to try something completely different, talk to your partner about your fantasies and fulfill them in bed. Good luck – and have fun.